Possible Clues:

• Butler included in a benefit that's much appreciated
• Very lovable
• Having the strength to admit Miss Carrington is winning
• A party fit to grant membership to Republican darling
• How sweet to do this in a way that can be cultivated
• Fit lady in who is endearing
• Enchanting lady in talented milieu
• Charming pub backed, serving a small portion outside
• Move abroad supported by the French - lovely!
• Cute and cuddly?