Possible Clues:

• Died, I make quite clear, in great suffering
• Daughter and I emphasise pain
• Make miserable, good-looking person cut hair
• Suffering, so tear hair out?
• Attractive type cut hair, upset
• Portion of dessert's ideal getting over sorrow
• Is tense in formal clothing, producing suffering
• I'd turn to strain and sorrow
• Upset
• State of adversity