Possible Clues:

• 1998 Sarah McLachlan ballad
• College basketball coach Barnes
• Hit ballad for Sarah McLachlan
• Top 5 song by Sarah McLachlan
• 1998 hit from the Sarah McLachlan album 'Surfacing'
• #3 hit from the 1997 album 'Surfacing'
• Song on Sarah McLachlan's "Surfacing" album
• 1998 hit from the album 'Surfacing'
• 1998 hit that begins '___, I do believe I failed you'
• Barnes of college basketball