Possible Clues:

• In __ of: replacing
• "In __ of gifts ... "
• 'In ___ of gifts . . .'
• In ___ of (as a substitute for)
• In ___ of (as a replacement for)
• (In) place (of)
• Instead of
• "In ___ of flowers..."
• In __ of (rather than)
• 'In __ of gifts ... '